Once again I am trying to give my good advice to a friend who asks for it but always ignores it. How many times can one listen to a friend complain about a guy who has really done her wrong, only to have her run back to him? If I say what a horrible human being I think he is and she goes back to him, I’m the mean person who isn’t nice to her guy. If I listen and ignore what every fiber of my being is saying (“get the hell away from him”) then I am enabling her and not helping her out of what may not be a physically abusive “relationship” but is definately an unhealthy relationship. So, I’m damned if I do and damned if I don’t. This has been going on for several months and frankly, I don’t know how much more I can take without losing my temper.